It can be life altering and a scary time around menopause for ladies. Many don’t feel their best, with symptoms of fatigue, hot flushes, vaginal dryness and atrophy, a lack of zest for life and a torpedoing sex drive. They also may start to notice that their skin is not so supple and soft and has a lot more wrinkles than it had before menopause. This is a sign of a deficiency of estrogen. All this is often a total depression spinner for ladies, where they don’t feel themselves and can’t put a finger on exactly what is happening. From the perspective of the man or husband, the wife becomes short tempered and grumpy, and even maybe depressed and weepy or just totally withdrawn.